Exactly the same as me! I had a Mystic Warrior i think it was called, people said they were great, I just cant get on with flying with a harness around my ears!...lol.. No matter how many times I adjusted it, just horrible, Stiff as a board too, I always felt uncomfortable using the waist harnesses, not keen on the 'out and out' seat harness but really like the look of the climbing type ones, they look light weight and flexible.
What about the Quadrifoil Harness?