Hey Sammer, I was in much the same position as you , I had a bullet 2.5 which I could get lift on as I am a lightweight but it wont bring you gently to the floor rather dumping and crunching your knee joints. I tried a blade 3 4.9 in wind up to 10mph and found greater control as it is bigger it is quite stable and moves through the air creating pull and if you put the kite in the right area lots of lift. I managed it then tried a cheeky sweep to generate some lift it was then i was suprised to be about 5ft off the ground!!! I then was brounght back down to the ground quite gently. So go the blade they are a lot cheaper these days and will give you the kick you need! But take care