Just to clear up any confusion here is the content of a pm I sent earlier. Oh and for what it's worth I prayed for him last night, did you ????
My feelings go out to Ross and his parents, the fact they are not bringing him round until after his surgery is perfectly normal to interfere beforehand can cause comatosis.
"Major Injuries" can cover a whole deal of issues, do you know what specifically?
You don't think his father would share my joke, maybe not at the moment BUT I'm sure he will in the future, providing all goes well.
This is exactly the right time for humour believe me, I have seen many many people traumatised and in major shock after all sorts of injuries, and it is now that they appreciate it most, at least someone is willing to talk to them and help them, while others just walk away unable to come to terms with what has happened.
Only when you have been there and done that would I think you are qualified to talk about such a thing, I have it ain't clever it ain't funny (unless there still alive and you are trying to give them the will to live) and it ain't something I particularly enjoyed, but I did it because I could cope with it, at the time, since then however I find out I am suffering from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)(a fact which until today only 2 people on here knew about) and that is partly why I have the attitude I have towards acidents and such like.
I would be the first to dive in and help this guy if I had been on the scene, others would stand and watch, they are the ones who need help as they simply cannot deal with it, not everyone can.
If we don't see eye to eye on this I'm sorry, but it's because I believe passionately that humour is acceptable at all times, especially if it raises a smile .
In the meantime my sincere best regards go to Ross and his family along with my humour,
best regards Gray aka Agger.
My sincere thanks to those that have sent me PM's an rep points as support